John,
Our deepest sympathies to you. Hold fast to your cherished memories, of which you have so many. Shelley was such a lovely lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
I just wanted to pay my respects to Shelly, who invited me to her home for Passover dinner. I remember her as a generous, warm and lively person and I'm glad I had a chance to meet her and her family. My heartfelt sympathies for your loss.